Time Well Wasted
Being in a long distance relationship, we figure out that the countdown is our best friend and worst enemy.
We avidly keep track of days until we get to see our partner, and because of that, the time happens to go 5000 times slower than it should.
It’s been a month and three days since I saw Leo last, and it’ll be three months and 17 days until I see him again. It doesn’t seem to be getting any closer…
So I’ve derived a collection of time wasting ideas that will get you through the days a little bit quicker!
1) Get a job!
Working full time or part time is the most effective way to make your days fly by. Whether you love your job or hate it, you’re preoccupying yourself for those 8 hours a day that you’d have probably spent at home wallowing in your own sadness.
I work at a daycare. It’s fast-paced and I’m always on my feet. I’ll be at work for nine hours, and it’ll feel like three!
And not only is it a good time waster, it’s good to accumulate some moolah for when your hubby does visit for special things like date night outings, or little getaways!
2) Join a Gym!
I know most of you probably already came up with the New Year’s resolution to get in shape, and maybe you haven’t had the motivation to do it. But let me tell you, two weeks of going regularly, and it’ll become a routine!
Some people will go to the gym for hours. Your focus will be on the movement of your body, and pushing yourself harder, instead of it being on the clock.
Still can’t get motivated to go to the gym? Get a gym buddy! People are 70% more likely to go to the gym when they have a buddy that motivates them to go!
3) Gym not your thing? Try some workout classes instead!
Many studios offer exercise programs that aren’t like the typical gyms. Maybe you’re more into yoga or Pilates. Maybe you’re a kickboxing type of person. Or maybe you’re a little risqué and want to try pole dancing.
Taking these classes a few times a week give you something else to look forward to, other than the day your partner comes to visit!
A bonus is that you’ll have a killer body to surprise them with when they arrive! (Just saying…)
4) Online Courses
So exercise isn’t your thing – it isn’t for many people. But you can enrol yourself in many different online courses that can take up to 10 hours or more of your time in a week.
Some Ivy League schools offer free certificate and specialization courses that you can take that you can sign up for at specified times that the courses run!
Not only are you wasting time, but you’re also being productive towards your future. You can’t go wrong with expanding your education!
5) Month-to-Month Classes
If online learning isn’t your thing, maybe sign up for a certificate/diploma course in your home town. These programs can last from a few weeks, to ten months. Personally, I’ve been looking at a few. Some college certified courses are offered in aesthetics, and many towns have bartending or cake decorating courses too! You can usually find an array of different courses to take (certificate or not), right in your town!
Some might be full time hours, and some might be part time, but either way, they waste time!
6) Take Up A Hobby!
Is there anything you’ve wanted to do that you haven’t gotten around to yet? Maybe it’s starting to paint, or maybe you’ve always wanted to play an instrument. Well, now is the time to start! If you have all of this time on your hands, better waste it doing something you’ve always wanted to do. There are no excuses now, just you and time! You can take up anything from music to writing to cooking, etc. The whole world is your possibility!
Wasting time doesn’t have to mean you sit on the couch with a bag of Doritos and watch Criminal Minds marathons all day. You can choose to be productive with your time and actually get some stuff done, because the reality is, they’re not going to be visiting any sooner, and the days aren’t going to move faster. All you can do is occupy yourself until that day does come! And trust me, the wait is worth it!